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Reflections of Motherhood

WEDDINGS ~ TRADITIONS

Weddings are one thing besides being a nurse that I can say I know something about! There are many ways people have had their wedding! There are big and little church weddings. There are weddings on Valentines Day on top of the Empire State Building in New York City! Weddings in the court houses all over the country. One I witnessed was my son Justin and his wife Krissy's wedding in the court house in downtown San Fransico, CA.
There are weddings in yards and  flower gardens. There are weddings jumping out of a plane, coming down a water slide, and riding in a train!
Weddings can have a wedding planner, a wedding singer, or even a wedding crasher! But one thing for sure if the Bride and Groom want their wedding to be unique, they can plan it anyway that want it to be! If you want Elvis to marry you then you can go to Las Vegas and marry in The Chapel of Love!
If you want your wedding to be according to your family belief and religion, then you can follow those beliefs and traditions according to your family heritage!
Just recently I went out of state for a wedding for one of my family members! The happy couple decided that they would have their wedding according to the beliefs of the church they belong to!
Only rules or laws that govern a wedding are what your state or county says about a marriage license. But the when, or what, or how can be up to the people involved.

PEOPLE AT THE AIRPORT AND ON THE PLANE

If you've ever been to the airport, or even had the opportunity to fly anywhere, you've noticed how many people you see that are there for maybe the same reason you're there!
Recently I was on a flight waiting to taxi to the runway to take off, and I was noticing the different dress that the other passengers were wearing.
You've got the business attire people, with suits, ties, dress shoes (polished of course) laptops, iphones, blackberrys, etc!
One particular female passenger had her pink slacks, with these fancy hose with pink flowers, and her black patten shoes! Hadn't noticed or even kept up with the latest style on dress shoes to know that they were back in fashion. Maybe I need to ask my high school friend Janice who definitely knows about shoes!
The other group of passengers were like myself, with casual attire, jeans and a comfy shirt. The passenger that was seated by me on my first flight was in jeans shorts, t-shirt and a ball cap! He smiled when I first came to my assigned seat and put my larger bag over the bin above us. Then I slid my laptop bag under the seat in front of me! I didn't really look to see how old he was until the end of the flight. And to my surprise he wasn't a young guy but somebody probably middle age, or older!
Now the last group of passengers that I need to mention are the families with small children and babies! You can never miss that babies and young children are on your flight! The constant sound of babies crying, screaming are a constant reminder of what you (if you once had young children on a flight) use to have to tolerate, no that's not the word, maybe endure, trying everything you possibly can to rock, sing softly, feed or walk up the aisle if allowed, to keep the peace for the rest of the passengers and crew!! Now if you have a breast feeding infant, it very easy to shut the crying up, and I'll leave that to your imagination!

Airports and Learning to Wait

If you've ever flown anywhere on a commercial airline, you know how it feels to wait! If you're not a patient person before flying you'll learn how to be after flying a few times! Now if you're the person who's always running late, getting to the airport right before time to board. God help you, you love the intensity of walking fast, no maybe almost running to get through security, which is imposible to do, being in a hurry, cause the TSA workers will definitely slow you down.
I can't be that person, I've got to be early! That's my life, BE EARLY! So sitting for hours at the gate waiting to board your flight, reading your email, texting friends, calling friends and eventually hoping your battery on your cell doesn't die!

WORKING ON HOLIDAYS

It Labor Day 2010, and I'm up very early because I'm having to work, just like many holidays in the past!
Being in the medical field does not give you the freedom to always take holidays off! The incentive our employers give us is the extra pay, time and a half!! Those four words, ring in your ears, time and a half! The benefit this time for me is I'm only working two days this week, and I REALLY need that time and a half. 
So, those two days and one being a holiday will mean a better check, even though a two day work's check will be very small after taxes and all the other they take out Plus when health insurance comes out too, maybe there will be enough of a check to post to my checking account, but I doubt!
But the trade off is I will be taking a mini vacation that will be something that's worth taking time off from work!

FUN AT WORK, CAN THAT REALLY BE?

In order to keep up with the modern times of computer use, I decided it's time to start my own blog site! So, since I'm not a new mother like my two niece's Kelly and Krista, and I don't have an exciting job like my son Justin, traveling the US with American Idol auditions, I'll blog initially here on what I do best, work as a home care nurse! But as my title announces, I sometimes can have fun while working, though I still strive to be the best nurse I can be!
Having fun at work to me means dancing and singing with my patient as we perform her passive range of motion. There's nothing in the rule book of nursing that says exercising can't be fun! My patient smiles when we sing along to CMT channel of country videos she adores and attentively watches when she happens to be up in her wheel chair and in front of the TV, positioned so that she can see the screen.
The other fun thing that happens is when the "Mom" of my patient is in a happy mood, and she needs to talk about her new boyfriend, and the plans she has made with him for the weekend! And as the discussion precedes more deeper, even though I'm still checking my patient, charting on the things I need to write on at that particular hour of the day! Of course never straying away from my job as the "Nurse" for that shift!
So even if your day may be long, 10 hours long, you can still make it fun for your patient, her mom and yourself by being creative, lend a listening ear and discerning eye to the needs of the whole family!